Met some awesome guys last night, really cool and sincere people. Shared some
ideas on dating throughout the night, and voila.!!. Laughter and smiles all over
the place. It's as if people around us were non-existent.
Had a
simple but mind blowing epiphany today.
Simply put, it's this simple
and stupid system in which people learn new stuff. Especially in the dating
industry...which makes them so darn robotic, and fake..yea.
Oblivious
---> Exposed to new technique ---> Test out new technique ---> Trial
and error ---> sift out what works and what doesn't ---> Explore new
technique ---> Test out technique --->Trial and error ---> sift our
what works and what doesn't
Awesome flow chart right? I mean trial and
error is great right? NO? From being totally oblivious to any dating advices to
having an upper hand, to trying out these new found knowledge, to testing it
out, to keeping what works and what doesnt, and finally to explore NEW
techniques again...and on...and on..and on...
Great you say? Yes..that's
what most guys in the dating community thinks...and eventually
behave.
Great..i digress.
That's what's gonna kill you in the long
run. From building up an egoistic self, to making yourself feel miserable by
always having the need to think of new tactics to get the girl.
As i
always say...keep it short and simple. and POTENT.
My
mentality..
Oblivious ---> Exposed to new technique ---> Test out
new technique ---> Trial and error ---> sift out what works and what
doesn't ---> Understanding why it works and why it doesn't
--->
Freeflow time!
PERIOD.
The difference between both
mentality?
The first one gets you stuck in the "What should i Say, Do,
Behave NEXT?" to get the girl bubble of stupidity. And turns you into an
analytical FREAKSHOW who doesnt know how to have real fun.
The latter
enables you to expand your perspective, while understanding key concepts..in
essence allows you to showcase your natural attractiveness, while not
compensating on the attraction department.
Fair?
Is this the key
to destroying weird freak shows ??
I dun know..
I just love
myself.
=)
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